“Taking advice requires humility and shows wisdom… We face the same dilemma [as Rehoboam in 1 Kings 12:1-24] in our own little kingdoms. Do we listen to the advice of older Christians, our parents, our in-laws, our mentors? Or do we stubbornly plow ahead on our own? … Why not take advantage of their wisdom? That does not mean that you must always do what they advise, but why not give them a good hearing and then consider the merits of their ideas? If it seems wise to you and your spouse, then go with it, remembering that it is your decision.” 

*taken directly from page 376 of The Love Languages Devotional Bible by Gary Chapman

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